A bespoke engagement ring offers something that off-the-shelf options simply can’t match: the freedom to express yourself in every detail. Whether you’re looking for an old-cut diamond, a rare coloured gemstone, or a modern, minimal design, this guide will walk you through the essential steps.

1. Start with Your Story

Before you even reach out to a jeweller, it’s helpful to have a sense of the story you want your ring to tell. Consider:

• Lifestyle & Personal Aesthetics: Are you (or your partner) drawn to sleek, contemporary styles or more vintage-inspired designs?

• Symbolism & Meaning: Think about motifs, birthstones, or colours that hold personal significance.

• Dream Gemstones: Whether you adore bright sapphires or prefer an ethically sourced natural diamond, gather ideas and inspirations.

This initial brainstorming provides a clear direction once you begin discussing your design with Moira or any other bespoke jeweller.

 

 

2. Find the Right Jeweller

A major factor in creating a bespoke engagement ring is choosing a jeweller whose style and values resonate with yours. Look for:

• Ethical Sourcing: Ensure the jeweller uses responsibly mined or recycled materials where possible.

• Expert Craftsmanship: Seek evidence of careful, high-quality workmanship—particularly if the ring features intricate detailing or unique settings.

• Shared Aesthetic: Flick through the jeweller’s portfolio (or Instagram) to see if their signature look aligns with your vision.

 

3. Schedule a Consultation

Once you’ve chosen a jeweller, book an initial consultation—either in person or virtually. During this meeting, you’ll:

• Discuss your style, budget, and any specific ideas you have.

• See potential gemstones (or arrange a tailored gemstone search).

• Explore design sketches or references that reflect what you’re hoping to achieve.

This is also when you’ll get a ballpark timeframe. Depending on gemstone sourcing, design complexity, and workshop availability, bespoke engagement rings typically take 12 weeks to complete - though extra time may be needed for very intricate projects.

 

 

4. Review Design Proposals

Many jewellers (including Moira) will provide:

• Hand-Drawn Sketches: Initial drafts to visualise your concept.

• CAD Models: Detailed 3D renderings that let you see every angle and detail.

• Wax Prints (if desired): A tangible way to feel the ring’s proportions before casting.

If there’s something you’d like to change or enhance, don’t hesitate to speak up at this stage. Bespoke design is all about collaboration and ensuring each element meets your expectations.

 

 

5. Finalise Your Gemstone & Metal

From ethical diamonds to rare coloured gems, the choice of centre stone (and potential accent stones) shapes the overall impact of your ring. Think about:

• Cut & Clarity: Reflecting the level of sparkle or character you want.

• Carat Size: Balancing scale and budget.

• Metal Choice: Gold (yellow, white, or rose), platinum, or a mix—each brings its own hue and durability.

Moira can help you weigh the pros and cons of each choice, ensuring you pick a combination that aligns with your lifestyle, aesthetic, and budget.

 

 

6. The Crafting Process

Once the design and materials are approved, the ring goes into the workshop where skilled jewellers bring your vision to life. A Moira Patience engagement ring is hand-crafted in Scotland and hallmarked in Edinburgh, reflecting a tradition of craftsmanship that’s both local and world-class.

 

 

7. Collect or Unveil Your Ring

When the ring is complete, you’ll either collect it in person or arrange secure shipping. This final moment is incredibly special. If you’re planning a surprise proposal, be sure to give yourself some breathing room before the big day, just in case any last-minute adjustments are needed.

 

 

8. Ongoing Care & Maintenance

Every bespoke ring can benefit from periodic check-ups, especially if you wear it daily. A quick professional cleaning or claw check helps preserve its sparkle and structural integrity. Insurance is also advisable for peace of mind, particularly if your design features higher-value gemstones.

 

 

Ready to Begin Your Bespoke Journey?

If you’re feeling inspired, Moira and the team are here to guide you through every step - from your first spark of inspiration to the final unveiling of your ring.

• Explore the Bespoke Experience to learn more about our detailed process.

• Book a Consultation to discuss your ideas and discover a curated selection of natural gemstones.

• View Recent Commissions for real-life examples of how we bring personal stories to life in extraordinary rings.

Final Thoughts

Buying a bespoke engagement ring is a truly meaningful way to honour your relationship and reflect your own sense of style. By taking the time to find the right jeweller, finalise a design that resonates with you, and choose high-quality materials, you’ll end up with a completely unique and personal ring that will stand the test of time.